I have never been in love. I do know the love we have for our parents, our siblings, our friends, our most priced possession but never been in love with the one who will be my soulmate? Idk about soulmate but I want that guy to be my mirror. In front of the mirror, we don't need to put on a mask or hide our feelings, we are bare n vulnerable in front of it. I need my guy to make me so comfortable that I can show him my vulnerability. I can show him my ugliest and darkest sides hidden well within me. I won't ask him to do all the things listed below but would want him to try for me just like I will try for him. I need him to be honest and loyal to me, the rest of the qualities may be lacking but these two shouldn't. I need him to not judge me which I expect from him but everyone. I need him to guide me when I am wrong (can even scold me).  He doesn't take my muffat and outspoken nature as ill-mannered n brat behaviour. He can handle all my mood swings n antics. He understands when I need space and respects it. He understands my obsession with books & fictional men and enact scenes from those books (greedy me, hehehe). In short he accepts me as I am. It's not only about me. I will respect his wishes and perspective as well. I will try my level best to understand him n his issues. I will try to be his comfort pillow when he is low or wants to cry, when he wants to get a hug from me. I will also try to understand his mood swings n moments n support him. Yeh sab toh mein karungi uske liye ya voh mere liye karega. Ab baat karte hai dhoke ki!

Kya sacha pyaar itna rare hai aaj ki life mein? When your importance in your partner's life is vital, he won't leave one chance to make you feel special but the moment all the problems from your life go away, you don't need your partner bcoz now you are self sufficient? Jab tak matlab hai tab tak hum aapki no. 1 priority hai, jab matlab khatam tu kon aur mein kon? Pyaar se parivaar ka rashta mushkil hai aisa suna hai aur dekha bhi hai ab toh. Pyaar sharto ke bina hota hai par parivaar sarto se chalta hai. Parivaar chod nahi sakte par pyaar choot sakta hai jab ki hum parivaar bhi chodne ke liye taiyaar ho jaaye? Na hi kapde hai na hi koi cheez ki pasand nahi aayi toh dusri le lo par hum karte toh yeh hi hai na? This may be a girl's pov but applicable to both the sides. Meine toh pyaar abhi tak kiya nahi hai, par jab hoga yeh sab mein meri destiny n partner kya karta God knows....

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I just wanted to pen down my thoughts, maybe not upto the standard. Please share your thoughts in the comment section.